To pick or not to pick your event music, that question comes up all the time. Many DJs do not allow their clients to pick any music at all, or maybe just a few tunes. Then there are those, like us at Total Entertainment Music, that allow you to have your day, your way...always. My client RJ called a few weeks back and asked if I would work with someone who wanted to make their own playlist, and she complained that all the music she hears at recent events just seems to be th